Be afraid of true feelings. There are reasons for being afraid of true feelings. On the one hand, true feelings often mean giving and revealing oneself unreservedly. This will put a person in a vulnerable state. Once betrayed or hurt, the pain will be extremely profound. You will worry that your true feelings will be let down and the invested feelings will not receive an equal response. On the other hand, giving true feelings may entail great risks. For example, changing one's own life rhythm and sacrificing personal interests. The uncertainty of the result will make people feel fearful. True feelings may also bring pressure because the other party may have overly high expectations for this true feeling. Once these expectations cannot be met, contradictions and disappointments are likely to arise. But despite these concerns, true feelings are still the most precious part in emotions. If one can face it bravely, one may also gain the most beautiful emotional experience.

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故里: 你脆弱么?🥶🥶🥶
小空(Soulmate): [什么]
Jim: 有理由害怕真情实感。一方面,真情实感往往意味着毫无保留的给与和流露自己。这会让人处于一种脆弱的状态。一旦遭到背叛或伤害,痛苦极其深刻。你会担心自己的真情实感会让人失望,投入的感情也得不到对等的回应。另一方面,付出真情实感可能带来巨大的风险。例如,改变自己的生活节奏,牺牲个人利益,结果的不确定性会让人心生恐惧。真情实感也可能带来压力,因为对方可能对这种真情实感有过于高的期望,一旦这些期望无法得到满足,就可能产生矛盾和失望。但是,尽管存在这些担忧,真情实感仍然是情感中最真贵的一部分。如果一个人能够勇敢的面对它,他也有可能获得最美好的情感体验。