Having closure means you might not be happy about your situation, but you understand it.
释怀意味着，尽管你可能不满于当前处境，但你已经能够接受它。
Without it, you might feel stuck in the past, wondering "why" and "what if".
若不能释怀，你可能会陷入过去，不断地自问"为什么会这样"和"如果当初..."
Often, taking steps to resolve that uncertainty can feel better than living with it, even if it means being vulnerable.
通常，采取行动解决不确定性会比一直活在其中更让人舒适，即使这意味着需要展现自己的脆弱一面。
But by looking to someone else to put our own minds at ease, we might be giving them too much power and ceding responsibility for our own wellbeing.
然而，若过度依赖他人来获得内心的平静，我们可能会赋予他们过多权力，同时也放弃了对自身幸福的主导责任。
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