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读了很多哲学与心理学书籍后会发现，亲密关系与解脱之道的本质是一致的，是臣服、无为与顺其自然。人一旦过度运用心智去设法设限和控制，便与对方的内心失去了美妙的链接。伴侣并非因为满足我们的期待、需求或幻想而存在的，好的伴侣更不是世上的另一个自己，他们其实是来映射我们顽固的惯性，帮助我们获得真正的心灵成长，与向更高层次跃升的媒介。所以，放下控制、自以为是和固执，就会发现一切问题，迎刃而解。就像身边那些久处不厌很有魅力的人，通常并不是外形顶顶出众的那群，自在和自如的感觉，是一种绝对的吸引力。所以，备受推崇的所谓“松弛感”，并不是任何有形的外部配置，而是源自心底的自信、包容、真实与无所求的总和。我们与这世上一百个人交集，就会映射出自己的一百个侧面。归根结底，任何关系始终是在处理与自我的关系。 #记录我这十年的美好瞬间 >>阅读更多

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